Oh what a wonderful week it’s been.
It’s a been a while since I posted on this blog and I think I finally figured out why.
I’m a person who “does things.” Out of the five love languages, mine is “actions” and to me, I am really happy and have joy when I have accomplished something, made something, and something got done that may not have if I didn’t put the effort into it.
A blog is an interesting mix of “doing things” but not seeing (or touching, or feeling) the results of it. I try not to be obsessed over it anyway. Sure there are ways to see traffic to the site, look to see if people bought anything from affiliate links, and how many people engage your content, but the tangible result is difficult to feel the love that I pour out into the pages.
But -Here I am. Posting for my children because they are my ‘Why’ I do things that I do anyway.
My theme for the week: I learned quite a bit about myself and my life.
- I learned it’s really hard to work from the house. My husband works out of the house and as many times as I have been secretly jealous of him, It’s difficult to do on summer break when my kids are home. I tried it this week, and let’s just say, it’s hard for me to get anything productive done.
- I learned my daughter’s love language this week. It’s ‘touch.’ I have no doubt now if I did before. She hangs on my husband and I like we’re monkey bars. She tried kissing me on my arm and even though she’s my daughter it totally gave me the willies. Ya, now I know.
- I learned that my husband is an amazing meat-cooker. He won a meat contest over at Instructables for the best rib recipe and I am excited about getting shipped meat from Pat La Frieda Meat Purveyors. We’re kind of nervous about the meat being shipped to California from New Jersey, but here’s hoping it’ll make and I’ll keep you posted.
- On Sunday the 5th, I re-learned how to jog in my neighborhood. My personal trainer told me to try jogging for 30-second bursts, walking a bit, and the jog again for 30-more seconds. In the beginning of my first mile, when I tried to run, it felt like my feet were lead. I jogged and walked for a total of 45-minutes, for a distance of 3.2 miles. It was difficult on my lungs, my legs felt like jello when I got home, but at the same time, I did it and it felt great.
So many things happened this week, as they usually do.
My husband cooked a tri-tip in the Traeger smoker overnight. It was surprisingly good. It was covered in sage and a few other spices, as we are on a low-carb eating plan right now.
My kiddos had a great week making crafts, going to swim lessons, and we went on a spur-of the moment trip up the hill to try out the Jeep. (More on that below.)
On Thursday, I had a few of my friends over to make some mosaic necklaces. I hope to get that up on the blog soon!
We ended up going on a four-wheeling trip with some friends on Saturday. A spur of the moment trip for us is anything planned in a week. We went up a run called Bald Mountain and you can see Shaver Lake from the top of the run as shown in one of the photos. It was awesome and feel free to follow me on Instagram to see the longer captions of some of the photos below.
So here’s the thing about our weekly round-ups – it’s the best memories. That’s what I want my kiddos to remember when they’ve grown. If there’s one thing I learned from my mother passing away, it’s that I remember <almost> all the good things. You don’t think of that when you have to go through the bad stuff, but when you have good things in life, I really believe you have to remember them.
Maybe the hard stuff teaches us, but the good stuff is what needs to be remembered.
My hope is that when my children are old enough to read this blog, they realize how fun their childhood was. How special little events were (and are as they are happening.)
A certain amount of family togetherness happens that’s hard to describe quite frankly, when you don’t have TV or the internet to rely on. I’ve talked about this before when going camping, and going 4-wheeling is just about the same thing. It also opens their world to new people that they wouldn’t have another opportunity to come in contact with unless they share a common thing like 4-wheeling. All this stuff is learned somewhere, right?
I hope everyone has a great week coming up and as always, thanks for reading!